Sadly cheating is more common than ever. Guys like to “play the field” and it has become so common that the term “side chick” is actually a thing. Celebrities, athletes, politicians have all been caught up in cheating scandals.
But, it isn’t just the rich and famous, monogamy just doesn’t appeal to a large sector of men (and women).
If you have a bad feeling that the guy you are with or even the guy you are considering getting with might have a girlfriend, here are 10 unmistakable signs that you just might be right!
10 Signs He Has a Girlfriend
1. He takes his calls in private
Yes, every so often we get a call from a parent or a coworker and we need to step out to discuss something. But, if your guy is slipping away for calls often, he is probably trying to hide something from you. And that something just might be another girl.
2. He guards his phone like it holds national secrets.
Back to the phone again. We set our phones down all the time, all over the place. At least, we do when we have nothing to hide. If he never let’s his phone out of his sight he could be worried you might pick it up and see something you shouldn’t.
If he freaks out because it rang and you went to hand it to him, or even answer it, that is another sign he could be hiding something.
3. You have caught him lying about little things
Did your guy say he was going to be home all night, but then you call him and he is out at the bar? Does e say he is going to be one place but days later gets his story confused and says he was another place?
When you are leading a double life it can get hard to remember all the little lies. If he is lying about small things, it just might be to cover up something big.
4. He doesn’t want you to come to his place.
If his place is completely off limits it might be because he lives with another woman. Or, maybe there is so much there that would give away her existence that it is just easier to always go to your place.
It could be something else, he may be embarrassed of his place or just like his space his, but at some point you should be invited over and in, even for a moment.
5. You haven’t met any of his friends or family
If you are the big secret than he might not be able to bring you around anyone who really knows him. This rings especially true with his family, if they don’t know you exist he is keeping you a secret for a reason.
It might be he isn’t ready yet, but eventually you should meet some of the people that matter to him. Generally, that is a rite of passage in any relationship.
6. He doesn’t want to be “friends”
If you are dating, yet he doesn’t want to add you to his Facebook or other social networks he might be worried what you might find if you were on is page. If he says he doesn’t have one at all, check for yourself, and then check again from a friend’s account he doesn’t know about.
Sometimes en can go to great lengths to keep their secrets well hidden, he may have blocked you just so you cant see his account.
7. He is super suspicious of you
It has been said that those who are hiding something often suspect the other person of doing the same. There is a lot of truth behind that statement.
If he is overly suspicious of you and what you are up to it may be his guilt projecting on to you. Some insecurity can be chalked up to past relationships, but really if he isn’t hiding anything he may just be an overly jealous jerk.
8. The “sister” or “best friend”
Some guys are brazen, and some women don’t mind being one of many. If he seems to spend a weird amount of time with, or talking about, or worst of all comparing you to a sister or best friend there might be more to that relationship than meets the eye.
Men and women can be best friends, and guys do have sisters, but if the relationship feels wrong, it might be.
9. When you go out, you go way out
If when the two of you go out on the town, he takes you to the next town over he might be trying not to run into anyone he knows. Sure getting away is romantic, but if every date is a an out of the area trip, there might be a reason he isn’t comfortable just taking a stroll in the local mall with you.
10. You have your own ringtone but it’s not very special
If he took the time to set up a ring tone for you, but it has no romantic or special meaning you can figure out that is an odd one. He could be ensuring he knows it is you calling without wanting anyone around him (another girl) to know that you are someone special to him.
Trust your gut…
If your gut says something is up, something probably is up. Sure, we over analyze things sometimes, so don’t just drop him right away. But if you think something might be up do be aware. Over and over women finally get proof that their man was up to no good and say “I knew it.”
Don’t sit around waiting for videotaped evidence if there are too many signs either confront him or walk away. Save yourself the heartache of investing months and maybe years in a guy who has been doing you wrong all along.