Dating a Hot as Hell Guy

We all have a few dream guys, the ones we wish we could have for just one night! Usually these sexy men of our dreams are movie stars, athletes, musicians or other famous faces.

We know we can’t have them, or at least the odds are incredibly small. But, they aren’t the only amazingly sexy fish in the sea.

What happens when you find a man in real life that is dead sexy? Is dating arm candy all we dream it will be?

Here are the pros and cons of dating a handsome and hot as hell guy:

The Pros of Dating a Hot Guy

He’s gorgeous!

Of course, this is the obvious place to start. The beauty of eye candy, is well it’s eye candy. When your man is dead sexy you get the pleasure of having one hunk of sexy man eat at your side all the time. Those moments of sexy we fantasize about, you live it, 24/7.

You can have good looking kids?

His great looks, plus your great looks, equals some incredibly adorable children! While being stone cold sexy isn’t a gene, many of those features you find sexy are genetic. Of course we all love our children and they are adorable in our eyes.

But, making babies with someone so good looking doesn’t hurt the odds of having one great looking family!

It can boost your self esteem

He is ever so hot, and even better he has a great personality. He is the total package, and he picked you. This man could be with anyone, yet you are the one he finds special. You are the one he wants to be with.

Having a hot guy choose you over all the prospects he has can make you feel amazing.

You feel proud to have landed such a hot guy

Sure women look, lots of people look. But, that hot guy is all yours. There is a sense of pride walking down the street holding his hand, knowing people are looking but they can’t have him.

He is all yours. You get to walk around and say- that’s right world look all you want, he is all mine!

Perks and VIP Treatment

Sure he gets loads of attention because of his looks. But, sometimes that attention comes with perks. He catches the eye of plenty of people, including bartenders, bouncers at trendy night clubs, and hostesses at nice restaurants.

All that sexy can make it easier to get a drink, to get into a hot club, and to get a good table at a great restaurant.

The Cons of Dating a Hot Guy

The attention he gets from other women

At first it can be fun to show off your sexy man. Eventually it can get more than a little irritating how much other women can and do fawn over him. And, no you are not just imagining it. Pretty people get hit on in public.

They get flirted with, people strike up conversations with them. No matter how secure you are, it can get annoying having women hit on your man unsolicited.

People assume you are superficial

Sure, you know you are with him for more than his looks. But, other people may take one look at your hottie and assume that is all you look for. You may not care what other people think, but if your relationship falls apart you may find your friends trying to set you up with “hot” guys who don’t have much of anything else to offer.

It can create insecurities

Even if he is the most faithful person in the world, even if he is oblivious to all the women flirting and fawning over him, it can have a toll. You might not be insecure or jealous at the start, but over time all the attention he gets can wear on you.

The fear that he might stray, or that you might not be “hot enough” can start to creep in. It isn’t true, but over time it can start to nag at you that it might be.


Some hot guys know they are hot, most do. Some come with an ego greater than their amazing good looks. Of course this isn’t always the case, but the bad reputation good looking people get for having egos that are bigger than their looks comes from the bad apples that poison the lot.

Of course it won’t take long for you to figure out if his ego is more than you can deal with.

High maintenance

Pretty isn’t easy baby! Some hot guys are just naturally hot. Some hot guys are naturally hot and work extra hard to stay that hot. Be prepared for the possibility of manscaping, tanning, hours at the gym, and shopping trips that rival your own.

It can be funny when he takes longer to get ready to go out than you do. It can also get pretty annoying sometimes.

Attractive on the outside and attractive on the inside, the complete package:

Who doesn’t want a hot a guy? We all do. But what is most attractive is a guy who is easy on the eyes and has a great personality. There is nothing wrong with arm candy. What’s even better is the complete package. It is easy to say looks don’t count.

But, we do care, attraction is important to a happy healthy relationship. Looks aren’t everything though. More than likely the right guy is a mix of sexy on the outside and sexy on the inside. If your guy is dead sexy there will be drawbacks and pros, as with any relationship.

But if the right guy is the right guy how he looks will only be one of many factors.

Hey there! I'm Kathy. I am a journalist, writer, art enthusiast and passionate with love. I'm proud to contribute to this blog, because I love to share my thoughts and experiences about Love, Relationships and all my Passions.  Hope, through this blog, we have a great opportunity to communicate and share our thoughts. I believe you can be my inspiration and I can be yours!