So often, you find yourself in a modern day romantic predicament. Whether it’s the hot new guy working in your office, or the barista at your local coffee shop, you need this man to fall in love with you. What if you’re already in love and longing for the spark to return to your relationship? By following these steps you might gain some insight on how to make your man love you more than anything else in the world.
Make Him Love You More than Anything!
1. Take it Slow
If at all possible, let him make the first move. Not necessarily the romantic first move, but let him speak with you at first. When you exchange phone numbers, let him message you first. Don’t be too… clingy!
2. Enjoy the Chase
Instead of pining for him while you’re waiting for him to respond, go ahead and make him wait a little bit longer. When he does get around to texting you, go ahead and let him wait just a while! There’s no reason to respond immediately. Take a bath or finish up some work from the office before finally responding to your potential lover.
3. Share Your Similarities
According to Psychology Today, people often fall in love when they have things in common. On this journey of romantic prowess, go ahead and share what you like to do. If you both end up being into the same movie series or TV show, this can lead to the perfect first date set up.
If you are talking about what you like while on a date with this new man, go ahead and plan more dates doing fun activities that you will both enjoy. You never know when you might end up laughing over the latest romantic comedy, or racing through an amusement park getting your thrills from tall roller coasters!
4. Maintain Eye Contact
Keeping eye contact when conversing can end up being one of the sexiest parts of a relationship. A wise man named William Shakespeare once said that ‘the eyes are the windows to the soul,’ and he definitely knew what he was talking about!
Even if you aren’t actively talking to your man about something, eye contact alone may say all of the words that you aren’t. Never be afraid to give your new partner a sultry look with a little pout, just to let him know what you’re really thinking.
5. Cook for Him
If someone has joked about your cooking by saying that you could burn water, then I would advise against following this step. Cooking for each other, however, can be a big step in a relationship. If you know how to whip up a fantastic meal in the kitchen, maybe drop some hints and invite him over to indulge with you.
If that isn’t your cup of tea, it never hurts to look up some new recipes and try to make a meal together. After all, they do say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach!
6. Communication is Key
Make sure that any time you are conversing, texting, video chatting, or talking on the phone that you are actively listening. These days communication in relationships is an important ingredient. If you meet this partner on Tinder, odds are that you need to have impeccable written skills to understand each other on a certain hot and romantic level.
For others, the ability to keep silent and listen is more powerful and sexy to their partner. Whichever you are, make sure that you share your heart with your partner… Especially if you are wanting him to do the same with you.
7. Be Confident
As a woman trying to make this man love you more than anything, it’s vitally important that you maintain an air of confidence about yourself as often as possible. If you find self-confidence in wearing jeans and a t-shirt, or in perfecting your makeup down to the cat eye look you saw online, then you are good to go for this step.
It isn’t at all about impressing him; it’s about feeling good about yourself and knowing exactly how you look and act, regardless of other outside input.
8. Spend Time with Each Other
One of the best ways to bond with your significant other is to spend time with them. As mentioned above, spending time doing things with each other that you both enjoy can ultimately make everything better for both of you. It isn’t always necessary for you and your partner to go out on the town to spend time with each other, though.
Spending time together can simply mean sharing dinner together in the evenings when you both get off work. It can even mean snuggling and talking about how your day was when you both fall into bed at the end of the day. You can even spend time with your partner if you are in a long distance relationship! This can be done by calling and asking how they’re doing, or by intimately falling asleep together on video chat after a stressful day.
9. Remember to Be Yourself
This final step is the most important of all! The best way to take initiative and to cause your man to love you more than anything is to always remember to be who you really are. If you love someone and want them to reciprocate the feeling with full honesty, remember not to change for them.
If they do not love you for all of your quirks and grand ideas, there is someone on this planet who will love you more than anything else in his life. Stay unapologetically yourself and love with all of your heart. By being your most authentic self you will be able to achieve the sweetest kind of love possible: true love.